Losers Plan New Year Resolutions, Winner Works on Sundays
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When I was 12, I used to make resolutions every Sunday.
From Sunday, I will start studying and will be top in my class. It was a dream of me to get the highest mark in all the subjects. But it never came true.
In fact, I don't even care what I got, or how many times I had to give my test again.
Resoulations trick your brain with a quick dump of dopamin.
Every day when I think, I will stop strolling on social media at 7:45 pm, or let's say I gonna watch for 1 more minute because 7:44 pm.
I have already loosened the battle before I have even fought it. No matter what, you cannot keep track of that 7:44 pm when turns into 8:13 pm then 9:30 pm.
New Year Resolutions are made to put you in a poor cycle
When you tell yourself, you will do something that will make you better, and visualizing that outcome will give you instant gratification.
By taking you away from your current situation.
Since you will stop working on your resolutions after a week or a month you will tell yourself something different or you will have reasons why you can not or will not do it, which will again give you instant gratification.
And this cycle of instant gratification will keep you in a loop of being happy with not achieving your goals, where more than 90% of us live.
Concept of Time
The day you will truly realize you have a very limited time in this world, everything will change.
If you meet your parents twice every year, and your parents are in their 60’s the probability that you gonna meet them more than 30 times will be a blessing.
You will pack your bag, wear your shoes, and keep moving forward. Because that is what we should do. Life is not about starting gym membership from Jan 5 and not going from Jan 7. Life is about experiencing things like your peak physic when you are in your 20s. Your peak finance freedom is when you are in your 30s and so on.
Time to Break the Resolution
You have a very limited time.
If you want a greater physic then start going to the GYM every day, if you want to start an organization then today is the right time to make your first draft and today is the right time to present your draft to the potential sponsors, and today is the perfect time to start executing it, doesn’t matter even if its Sunday today.
And if you can finish something today then finish it. In that way, you will leave a space for something miracle to happen tomorrow.
That will transform your life forever.
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